Self realization??

So now a year and a half, a terrible break up, trauma and neverending tears later..the person i wrote about in my post titled 'My own worst enemy' (its down below somehwere) decides to complete the article with a happy ending?? Life is just amazing..u get exactly what u want when u don't want it anymore.

Here's what he has to say:

When you do become your own worst enemy, the time comes for you to sort out all the pieces in your head and tell yourself that today, I will change things. I will make right all the things that I made wrong. Only because self realization dawns upon me. And I know that in one lifetime, all I want from life is peace and happiness. I might have achieved that by myself but for the fact that you came into my life and showed me what it feels like to be loved and cared beyond my wildest dreams. And I would be suicidal to let something so precious slip away. Hence I consciously make right all the wrong and hope for forgiveness and pray for one more chance. Loneliness is a curse no one should have to go through because it saps your ambition, your strength, your desire and your very will to survive. You have taught me all that. And now you tell me to ignore it all? How can I even think of that as a possibility??

The ability to love and be loved unconditionally is God’s greatest gift to us. And we must forgive because it is the greatest thing we can do. The fact remains that time heals all and now you can turn to the arms of a man to comfort you. Because that man who was responsible for the pain and suffering you went through has gone down the same road and he has realized and wants nothing more than to give you everything in this life and beyond. Should such self realization be punished to this extent? Maybe, if you had not felt the way you did. But since you did, should you not attempt at least to forgive and try once more?

How many times forgive? How mant times try? there is a breaking point. How perfect that the self realization happened only after the breaking point!! i guess thats when self realization is punished but not by me...by yourself.