Soulmate?

You think there is this ‘one’ person that you’re meant to be with? Someone who you’re destined to be with? A soul mate? That there is a plan right from the beginning and what ever you do you will end up with just that person. But how can we make sure we end up with that appointed person..how do u know? Can one wrong turn down that street deprive you of that opportunity to meet that someone? Or do more opportunities present themselves over and over again till it’s in your face and you can’t deny it anymore…(or is that person just ur stalker and keeps following you around)

what if you let those opportunities pass you by? Does that mean we can’t truly love anyone other than the ones we’re meant to be with? Or are there 2nd and 3rd options? Not a very romantic notion I know but I honestly don’t think ppl always end up with who they’re meant to be with. Where could they have gone wrong? Did they see and choose to ignore cos it wasn’t convenient at the time or are some ppl just blinded by so much other crap around that they can’t see.

There are people who think constantly that the person they are with is ‘the one’ only to be disappointed in the end and move on to the next....while others don’t even give it half a chance cos they’re so afraid of getting hurt. Which approach is better? The former? cos at least they’re giving it a chance but then is it worth all the heartache? The latter? But then u may never find the person at all.

I think there are signs all around us pointing us in the direction. It’s not possible someone is destined for us but there aren’t signs pointing us to the person..what good would that be? Maybe we just need to really sit up and pay attention…maybe in some form or the other we would know..call it instinct…call it gut feel. Some people say they just ‘know’…maybe they just saw the signs more quickly and clearly while others are more cautious.

Should we just sit back and let it happen? If there is that person we’re meant to be with then we’ll come across them some way or the other. I guess its just believing that you will find that person some day and not ignoring it when u see the signs. It’s keeping your mind open..willing to take that chance. It’s knowing deep inside that that’s ‘the one’. You gotta feel it in your soul….that’s why we call them ‘soul’ mates.